On what defines a “good Korean daughter”

A reader sent me this message: “No offense but you don’t seem like you are a good Korean daughter. From what I’ve read of you, you are not a Christian, you married a white man, you are not in a honourable field that makes a good salary, and you don’t speak Korean. You have a Korean child and you aren’t going be able to raise him with his own birth culture. You should be ashamed of yourself, don’t you think? I don’t think you are a bad person. I just don’t think you are a good role model for Koreans children.”