When "liberators" don't understand the country they're trying to help,
the end result can be well meaning, but diluted. In the documentary The
Beauty Academy of Kabul, filmmaker Liz Mermin focuses on a group of
American hair stylists who travel to post-Taliban Afghanistan to teach
local women how to beautify themselves and their customers.
Though well-intentioned and enthusiastic, many of the Westerners come across
as clueless and thoughtless. Looking at a group of women eager to pick
up some styling tips, an Indiana hairdresser admonishes them for looking
plain and demands to know why they're not wearing makeup. She seems to
have no idea that until recently, these women were covered head to toe
in burkas.
Another American stylist says to her translator, "It seems to me some of
these women are fearful of their husbands. Why?"
And yet another seems disappointed when her class makes no notice of her
declaration that Frederic Fekkai--the famed hairdresser to the stars--personally
donated the scissors they're using.
Mermin would've done better to focus less on the Americans and more on
the Afghani women, many of whom have heartbreaking stories to tell. One,
who got married at 14, notes, "Men and women should be equal."
Another young student likes the idea of marrying a man she falls in love
with, but pragmatically points out, "If a guy can fall in love with you,
he can fall in love with someone else, too."
It is these women who carry the story. And it is these women whose stories
should've been delved into more.
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